Groucho Marx once famously quipped “I don’t care to belong to a club that would have me as a member.” I sort of feel the same way about online dating sites. Do I call myself Optimus Gandalf and admit from the get-go that I’m an alpha nerd? I love long walks, going to see live indie bands, and wha-a-a-atever.
There has got to be a better way to meet people, people. Unless you know what I was just thinking, in which case, e-mail me. Do I overshare a little too much and pick Edgar Allan Eeyore? Or more importantly, who am I when it comes to who I want someone else to think I am, so they will contact me, go out with me, and eventually touch my genitals. I made sure to pepper everything with winking non-sequiturs and casual attempts at pop profundity.
I went as a sort of cleansing ritual before the turn of the new year.Feels like you're just fed up and are looking for validation? There are many men and women who are extremely successful with online dating. They've taken the time to put together a great profile with great photos.They're dedicated to finding a partner, and they're open to love.Do you communicate those attractive qualities that women want in your profile? Do you have passions and interests that women would be drawn to?Are you a man of good character and have purpose in your life?Women keep saying they want more than a "Hi" and after we craft a clever response they just delete it without even reading it.