"I'm not going to be worried about what she does when I'm not around. They let their ego and insecurities come into play." Obviously, that means he gets to do whatever, too.
In fact, the problem comes more from when her friends call her when they see Pitbull out with other girls.
You love her, you really do, but sometimes you'd like some . With about 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many reporting infidelity as the reason, some couples are challenging the boundaries of traditional relationships in order to keep the spark.
You're not the only one playing video games well into the night to get that chick at the office out of your head.
"It sounds like a complete cop-out, but I felt I wouldn't be happy if I didn't have the freedom to experiment." Although Jake simply figured this phase would pass and he'd eventually stop "experimenting," he didn't realize his wife was doing the same thing. I guess my own guilt forced me to deal with it logically," he says.
That changed the day he spotted an unused condom in her purse. That night they had a long, frank conversation about their relationship.
When his wife was pregnant with their first child, he stopped, but he resumed three months after she gave birth to their son.
Or maybe you'd like to see or hear how someone else responds to your moves.Here are their tales: FREEDOM TO HUNT Rapper Pitbull, 26, takes an extremely different approach to his relationship of nine years compared with that of other guys in hip-hop.The Cuban artist lives by the words Ojos que no ven, corazon que no siente, which loosely translates to "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel," he says.Neither wanted to end it, but both agreed their desire to experiment with others wasn't something they were ready to abandon just yet."It was painful," says Karen*, "but the fact that we could be so honest with each other, I think, made our love stronger." Full disclosure allowed them to clear the quiet tension that had been building between them.Before, I'd often wonder if I'd be happier with one of these other women.