If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.” Sometimes people can be insensitive and uncaring.
It’s important to hold on tight to the things that matter to you until you know that you can trust someone.
Not only is it okay to wait, but it’s important to do so until the timing is right, until you have clarified your commitment, established trust, and experienced give-and-take in your dating relationship.
Don’t go too deep too fast, because emotional intimacy can pull you far deeper into your relationship than you ever meant to go and, in the end, leave you with the double damage of a broken heart and a broken spirit.
When I was in college, there was an ongoing joke about the Three-Second Hug Rule.It may hurt her for a few minutes (or days) but being honest and real always helps. You need to ask yourself each day for the first 15 days after you read this article. Create a dynamic where neither one of you feels afraid of each other.Once you’ve identified and perhaps run out of things that are working, you need to start building on it. Fearlessness Are you guys walking on eggshells around each other? Things you need to stop doing today Criticising, labeling, judging, taunting, harbouring resentments, threatening, being jealous and possessive, making her feel like she owes you, making fun of her or her friends, objectifying, dismissing, and ignoring. Daily appreciation This is like the warm-up for great sex.Appreciate her vocally especially in front of others.Catch her by surprise with a text or whisper some remarkable things in her ears.Though I don’t claim to have all the answers, God really challenged my heart on this subject during my season of dating.