Online dating dangers men

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I help men and women avoid being a victim of financial scam by following this cardinal safety rule: Never give money to someone you've just met.

If a potential match asks you for money, you reply, "I'm not your banker." You think, "Next!

Sure, you need to bring up past relationships at some point. Sure, dating can be frustrating, even disillusioning. If you're feeling negative, you'll scare off the good ones. If you have a 50-item list of criteria, if you're too specific about what you want, too rigid, you're going to find yourself alone forever." Her dating advice: Look beyond the bald head and other imperfections. Even if she consents to some activity, that does not imply consent for all sexual activity. Even if alcohol or drugs are involved, even if she doesn't put up a fight -- even if she's a former girlfriend -- it's rape if she says, "No." You can't be too careful; date-rape drugs such as GHB, Rohypnol, or Ketamine can render a victim unconscious and with limited memory.

Get out, meet people, and be open to new people and new experiences. After all, dating is a process of elimination -- you just haven't met the right one yet. Using these drugs is a federal crime that carries a possible 20-year sentence.

"You're looking for a connection, someone you're physically attracted to -- who's physically attracted to you -- plus someone who doesn't make you feel bored from the get-go," Schwartz tells Web MD. "But don't let the love bug mesmerize you," says Paul Falzone, author of the book, Find the Right One and CEO of "The Right One"and "Together," two nationwide dating services.

Falzone tells a story of a North Carolina woman who fell "totally in love" with a Massachusetts man she met online. Eventually, he encouraged her to sell her house, pack everything into a truck, and prepare herself and her two young children for a new life.

I'm sorry, I'm dishonest, I'm married." "You have to be very careful," Falzone tells Web MD.

Ask direct questions about what someone wants in a relationship, and if they’re dating anyone.

Pay close attention to their answers, so you evaluate if they are being honest or hiding something.

It's one thing to show depth of character, but revealing inner demons can be a turn-off.

Keep the conversation lively and fun, and slowly reveal the real you.

Hitchhikers, rocket scientists, even nuns probably do it, at least once. Then there are other dangers -- boredom, disillusionment, getting dumped, or simply getting taken.

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