Dating tips divorced moms

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What she needs now is friendship, support, and empathy.

However, you can be certain she’s been hurt big time. Related article: The Main Reason Why Relationships Fail 6.

But, I figured, if Robin Wright can snag a hot younger boyfriend after 15 years of marriage and a very public divorce, I could at least give dating a shot.

To my pleasant surprise, my 30-something confidence combined with the dawn of casual online dating culture made for one damn fun year and a half.

You may need to take second billing to her kid’s softball game or soccer practice. She can’t ease her load with part-time work because it won’t cover the bills. You can be an: understanding ear patient presence calming influence You’ll have more fun together if you can serve as a sounding board.

She doesn’t have the freedom to stop on a dime to go on a date. If she can’t get a sitter, be open to family activities. She can’t get sick since there’s no one to help her.

Her hours are eaten up by earning a living, maintaining a home, and raising children. She may need to get home by a certain hour to relieve the babysitter. If she’s a tad edgy at times, understand the stress she’s under.

What you can bank on is that she wants to be valued and treated with respect. Sure, you may want to pull back at times, out of fear.

The following psychological games are off-base: The Disappearing Act – If you say you’re going to call her tomorrow, keep your word. Roller-Coaster – Don’t go up and down with expressing your emotions.

To remedy my fears, I turned to seasoned dating coaches, Julianne Cantarella, MSW, and Elisabeth Lamotte, a licensed psychotherapist and relationship expert, to figure out the biggest dating mistakes single moms make (and the smart moves that should replace them). "It's not only the woman who can be hurt if the relationship ends, but the children as well." A savvy single mom should wait as long as possible before introducing her kids to the potential boyfriend and never make the intro around the holidays, the experts advise."Women should gain a sense of her boyfriend's interaction based on how he treats her and possibly his own children if he has them," says Cantarella, who suggests erring on the side of caution.

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