That tells him that you’re willing to be open and not take things too seriously. ) Tell him that you’re excited about taking your niece to the park and swinging on the swings with her. This may be difficult for you; it is for many women. You’ve got to get over this if you want to help men get to know you. (At least the good guys do.) He’s only going to know how fabulous you are – and if you’re a good match – if you get some of your shiny stuff out.Tell him you’re studying French because you have dreams of going to Paris. We aren’t used to talking about ourselves because we’ve been told it’s selfish and braggadocios. ) Real ladies are humble and let the man shine, right? Don’t be afraid to share your passions, interests, accomplishments, interesting life experiences and plans for the future.
Most people get a job and immediately spend their income on a car loan, high rent or a large mortgage, buying possessions and eating out using credit cards.
You need no one else to make you happy or validate you. Learn to let go (meditation helps with this skill), and learn to have a flexible mind.
Instead, learn to be OK with mistakes, and learn to learn from them, and learn to shrug them off so they don’t affect your profound confidence in who you are. Open your heart, be willing to take the wounds that come with an open heart, and you will experience the best of life.
Put away some of your income to grow with the power of compound earnings.
It’s all a matter of adjusting your tastebuds, slowly and gradually. Learning to be OK with some discomfort will change your life. Take a larger perspective: will this matter in five years?
They consider it quite childish, bordering on classless. That means online you’ll never hear from him again, and offline he might ask you for lunch; but that’s all you’re going to get. When you see a man you’re attracted to, you want to be seen as a w-o-m-a-n! Men love to know that you consider them to be smart, capable, fascinating and funny.